When I first tried kopete with support of Adium Themes I was unpleasantly surprised how complicated all those styles are and how much they try to look different than the surrounding environment. So I have cleaned up a kopete style provided with kopete and since then I have tweaked it a little there and little here to make it working correctly and not trying to have much personality of its own, and yet to be pleasant for all day use.
Further development of my version of Adium chat style for use with kopete/empathy/pidgin-webkit. Old version (which is an initial commit of this repo) is available on http://www.kde-look.org/content/show.php/SimKete?content=38876
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